using Miley to better my mood

The last several days have been pretty emotionally-heavy for Russ & me.  Staying positive when all you want to do is dwell on the negative becomes tough because let's be honest - it always seems easier to see the negative side of things.  Russ is much better at rationalizing the situation, keeping his chin up, and finding a way to move on.  Me? Not so much.  I try to put up a tough exterior, a shell of protection, to keep me safe and strong when less-than-desirable events occur.  Inside? I'm a shaking, blubbering, emotional mess that can't keep things together.  When things get too tough for me to handle, that shell cracks and I become a big mess.

This week I've been trying to keep my mind busy - by the time I get home, cook and clean up dinner, go to the gym, come home and clean myself up it's pretty much time for bed and my mind is exhausted from the day.  I still have time to dwell on the negative but I've been taking this time and putting it to towards spending time with Miley, who always seems to know when I'm needing some extra kisses or laughs.

Lately I've been dressing her up with my scarves when I get home and take them off which provides me (and Russ when he's around) with several laughs.

"Umm...Mom? This doesn't feel right"

"There, that's better!"

I think this one may be a little too bulky for her...

but this one seems to fit her (and her hair!) juuust right :) 

Isn't it amazing how much an animal (in our case, Miley) can cheer you up?  I can't imagine not having her being a part of our little family.  She's always so happy to see us walk through the door, whether it's after a long day at work or even just from walking back inside from getting the mail.